Professors Note 8/5/2023: As you will see in the introduction, it was like pulling teeth to get Paula to write about her experiences. I...

The Professor’s note 6/17/2023 I believe I’ve told you before that I re-read and clean up the wording of these posts before I put them on...

We both have a date on the same night In the first week of August 2013 we had a first, well several firsts, but the events say a lot...

Some time ago I read a blog that noted that while the idea of open relationship has some acceptance in the general community, the...

I find it interesting that the most common thing Paula and I were asked about when we spent more time with teens and young adults was...

A decade or so ago I was looking for a ring with a poly-heart on it to buy as a gift for Paula. I found a very nice hand made one on...

Some years back I had an epiphany. In trying to present a presentation of open-marriage in my first attempt at building a sex positive...

One day this question was presented to me on my blog. I’m hoping you can direct me to some of the discussions you mentioned about the...

To those who are new here, I have 20+ years in working with families and children professionally and have a PhD in this field. Many...

Paula Becomes a Sexual Libertine By the late fall of 2003, Paula had decided that she did not want to be owned by Dianne; however by use...

The Risks of Open Marriage Come Home Though I have alluded it the risks of a polyamorous open marriage, I have not gone down that path in...

It is very strange but explainable that when engaging in a threesome with two women and one man it is quite normal for the women to touch...

In this blog, I promote a polyamory type of open-marriage. Swinger type open marriages are most often kept a complete secret from the...

I have noticed that the concept of being a cuckold husband has taken on a new meaning in recent years. Traditionally a cuckold was the...

One of the interesting things that developed in the past few centuries in the western world is the idea of hobbies or avocations as an...

Some anthropologist contend that humans, prior to the advent of sustained agriculture (about 6,000 years ago), had not conceived of the...

ANOTHER MOVE BRINGS NEW THINGS By the winter/spring of 1998, my progressively more liberal views about Christianity got me into trouble...

One of our wedding photos from 1986 In advocating for a sexually open model of marriage, sometimes it is possible to lose site of the...

Note: As I read over this chapter to post it here, over twenty years have passed since the events. In some ways our lives back then were...

On this website I openly support polyamory type of open-marriage. Swinger type open marriages are most often kept a complete secret from...