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Professor Polyamory
Sep 1, 20246 min read
Pleasure, Meaning, and the Brevity of Our Lives
Author's Note 9/1/2024: It was four months ago when I was told my kidney function had completely collapsed. It took me a couple of months...
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Professor Polyamory
Jan 13, 20246 min read
Why Do Good People Do Bad Things?
One of the great mysteries in life is: How do so many good people do so many bad things. It is so easy to write off anyone we do not want...
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Professor Polyamory
Jul 30, 20235 min read
Observations of Naked Human Bodies
Professor’s note: I wrote this piece about fifteen years ago after I spent two consecutive weekends at the nude pool at the local swing...
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Professor Polyamory
Jun 11, 20237 min read
Of Enjoying Your Young Sexuality; or “Go out and fuck your brains out”
Years ago I recall a Playboy Magazine cartoon by Erich Sokol I think. On it an elderly lady was sitting on a park bench talking to a...
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Professor Polyamory
Dec 12, 20226 min read
Of Voyeurism and Vicarious Pleasure
This is a photo I took of my dear wife having sex with a man she'd met earlier that day. Is it morally wrong for you to enjoy looking at...
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Professor Polyamory
Sep 1, 20225 min read
Young Love IS Real Love
In post WW2 America, young romantic love has been constantly maligned by adults trying to both belittle it and to make it seem...
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Professor Polyamory
Jun 22, 20226 min read
Of Sexual Morality
Back in the 1990’s I held the position of Principal in the largest Christian High School in our region. As such I was in a position to...
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Professor Polyamory
Apr 5, 20225 min read
Of Claiming Ownership of Women
Now that the “Me-too” movement seems to have about run its course, I think it is important to remind ourselves that powerful men continue...
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Professor Polyamory
Feb 13, 20226 min read
Sexual Play v. Sexual Abuse
One day when I was still on Tumblr, I posted a rather aggressive condemnation of a captioned photo of a young woman with degrading...
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Professor Polyamory
Nov 17, 20213 min read
Of Sex as a Fun Social Activity
Some years back I had an epiphany. In trying to present a presentation of open-marriage in my first attempt at building a sex positive...
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Professor Polyamory
Mar 23, 20216 min read
Of Being Sex-Positive in a Sex-negative World
I use the term “sex-positive” quite a bit, but I’m not sure I’ve ever clearly defined what I mean by sex-positive. The foundation of...
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Professor Polyamory
Feb 16, 20216 min read
Of the Shame of Nudity
One day I read a Tumblr post asking the question “Why are people so hung up about nudity?” The simple and most often given reason is that...
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Professor Polyamory
Feb 8, 20215 min read
Of Youth and Possibilities
When I worked at Clemson I ended up walking across the campus several times today. While I did so I could not help but notice it was...
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Professor Polyamory
Dec 6, 20203 min read
Of My Concerns about the Cuckold Fetish
I have noticed that the concept of being a cuckold husband has taken on a new meaning in recent years. Traditionally a cuckold was the...
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Professor Polyamory
Nov 12, 20205 min read
Of Balancing Life, Hobbies and Sex Games
One of the interesting things that developed in the past few centuries in the western world is the idea of hobbies or avocations as an...
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Professor Polyamory
Oct 23, 20204 min read
Of Life, Sex and Football
These are a few of my photos from that day Of course that is my lovely wife Paula On a Saturday in 2012, Paula cajoled me into taking her...
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Professor Polyamory
Oct 18, 20204 min read
Of the Marriage Part of Open Marriage
One of our wedding photos from 1986 In advocating for a sexually open model of marriage, sometimes it is possible to lose site of the...
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Professor Polyamory
Oct 15, 20207 min read
What if Masturbation Were Not Taboo
Masturbation is simply the stimulation of one’s own genitals. It is the one way humans, in any circumstance, can find pleasure and...
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Professor Polyamory
Sep 5, 20204 min read
Polyamory Makes Camelot Better
I Propose a Better Version of Camelot by including Polyamory The story of King Arthur is essentially a Shakespearian type tragedy. King...
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Professor Polyamory
Aug 24, 20207 min read
Sex Positive Videos
Threesomes are some of the most common of sexual fantasies, and among both young and old people the taboo of a threesome is all but...
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